Read this saying

I just read one of my friend Facebook status update (Ci Citra)

Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self-esteem make you blind to warning signs. Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren't really that important.

Straight forward statement isn't it LOL

Akad Day


Tadaaa !! what you see is a banner ... Terjual is Bahasa Indonesia, when translated to English, it is a word that reaallyy turn me ON!! that is SOLD !!


It is my first house for listing in ray white and it is now sold, meaning the buyer has completed his payment and the owner handed the key over in front of a notary and bank as the buyer uses KPR (something like Home Loan).

After struggling for approximately one month through out the negotiation, loan application, and original document verification, buying and selling house is indeed a long process unlike a programming problem of course, I can't make and submit a ticket to Oracle support and get everything done in an estimated time line :P

And if I come at the office, I can tell you which marketing who has just closing the deals (they are with a big big smileee)
... having problems with vendor or buyer (they are usually very busy on the phone blabbering about well I'm not sure .. oh also with sms or BB chat)
... having a critical negotiation (they are usually a little bit quiet thinking what's next or they are usually discussing it with other marketing with crippling forehead or they might be having a heavy talk about price on the phone which can only be decrypted between parties, i don't know..)
... having a clooosee moment for deals (they are suppose to be hmm writing numbers on paper with calculator besides, how much are the taxes, commission, etc)
... or someone who's with a phbbbttt face you guess LOL they've been cheated or deal cancelled, or their listing has been taken over by others.

My boss always said "Never hear for negative energy, look and search for positive energy from who's been closing.." however I think that's just don't fit for me ... my joy comes from the Lord.

As always .. everyday with Jesus is sweeter than yesterday!

Pak Wapres Boediono and Menkominfo Tifatul Sembiring are on ...

TWITTER ???!!!!


nO kiDDing!! yep ... but this is good i think ... and currently this is one way for those ppl in high places get in touch with us Netters, Bloggers, or whatever, wherever indonesian citizens online.

I have no idea how many updates on his screen, will he be able to read each of them? we'll see

So here's Pak Boediono Twitter page: http://twitter.com/boediono
and here's Pak Tifatul Sembiring (menkominfo) page: http://twitter.com/tifsembiring

Happy tweeting!!

Adding Twitter widget

Just added My Tweets section for my lovely blog .... I know Blogger isn't as flexible as WordPress YET ... besides this template has a bug in its gadget settings.

Open House

What do I think about above picture ?

Yes, it's an open house event in one of house located in North Lippo Karawaci.
I've been doing a good...really good job *i think* as a property agent in Ray White Karawaci. Why? because I help people find their dream homes as well as selling their property.

For many of us, buying home is relatively expensive that's a fact but what's more important than price is easiness of the buying process. Mean while, for some of us, selling home is annoying when a stranger calls for asking only. And for both seller and buyer, government rules, developer policies and taxes might be problems. In this case, I must address those gaps and bridges.

The good side is I am learning a lot of things about property, marketing, negotiation, communication stuffs (I was a computer engineer and I had ZERO knowledge of what the heck is "property"!?).

The bad side, well there is absolutely no bad things except when the communication among stakeholders such as buyer, seller, developer, notary, even bank! run out of control or totally lost because of too many parties it is difficult to maintain communications line only by phone.

Well I think this is it for tonight ... more interesting stories to write tomorrow.

Good newsletter today

As usual, from Steve Younis (www.supermanhomepage.com); let me quote the content:

Welcome to the 202nd edition of the Big Blue Report!

Have you noticed on the internet, in comment boards and forums, that it's okay to praise something without citation, but if you criticize something people demand you explain yourself?

In the Superman world that is just as true as it is for any other topic. Fans openly priase "Smallville" with comments like, "Season 9 is the best season so far!" or "I love Smallville" and nobody bats an eyelid. They just accept that person's opinion without question.

However if you write something like, "Season 9 is the worst season so far!" or "I hate Smallville", you're likely to get a handful of people jumping down your throat, wanting to know how you can dare say that or why you think such a thing.

You'll note the comments I've used as examples are identical except for that fact that one is positive and one is negative.

Now let's be honest, you can't love absolutely everything about anything. Nothing in life ever fully lives up to our expectations. Whether it be a book we're reading, dinner we're eating, a person in our life, a pet, a music CD, a TV series or a movie. Whatever it may be, no matter how much you love it, it's never 100% perfect.

So when someone says, "I love Smallville", I highly doubt that they love everything about it. By the same measure, if someone says, "I hate Smallville", I also doubt that they hate everything about it. There's likely to be some aspects of it they like or at least don't dislike. It may be an actor, the setting, the music, etc... It stands to reason that there's some part of the TV show that they don't hate.

What's my point? I don't know that I really have one, except to point out that as human beings we tend to exagerate our opinions when putting them across to people. Just because someone says, "I hate this" or "I love this" doesn't mean they hate/love everything about it.

So the next time you see someone make the comment, "I hate Smallville", don't automatically presume to reply with the knee-jerk "If you hate it then stop watching it" repsonse. You can still be a Superman fan and not like "Smallville". Just like you can still be a Superman fan and not like "Superman Returns" or "Superman IV".

You don't have to love everything about Superman that was ever made to call yourself a Superman fan.

Regards,
Steve Younis
I've never meet Steve in person, I am not a 'reaaallly' big fan of Superman or Smallville either but I just like what he's trying to say in this newsletter edition about 'hate' and/or 'love' something.

I wonder what makes him wrote these but he's putting the words that sounds well in my ear. yeah :)

Musim Hujan

Tlah tiba.... feeling gua, taon ini Jakarta gak bakal lolos dari banjir besar lagi nih...

Inget 2 taon lalu gua stuck di tol Janger. Sampe ujung tol eh puter balik ke rumah.

Smallville Season 9

Just watched Smallville season 9 episodes 3 titled Rabbid. Wow... pretty much like watching Resident Evil mummies hunting there but you know what.. things get better between Lois and Clark. I just love the way they pack the LnC moments there.
Here's the trailer for next episode 4 titled Echo.

More countries to help disaster recovery

I found another detailed news written here titled World shows solidarity over West Sumatra earthquake. Let me quote the news.

World shows solidarity over West Sumatra earthquake

October 3, 2009 4:35 pm

JAKARTA, Oct. 3 — Indonesia once again witnesses the world solidarity continuously flowing to West Sumatra following a deadly magnitude 7.6 earthquake which rocked the province last Sept 30, Antara news agency reported Saturday.

At least 600 people were killed and thousands were still trapped under rubble in the West Sumatra earthquake which destroyed thousands of buildings.

The world had previously demonstrated generous solidarity when Indonesia's Aceh Province and Nias Island were devastated by a gigantic tsunami on December 2004, Yogyakarta and some parts of Central Java were leveled by VI-VII MMI-earthquake in May 2006.

In the aftermath of the West Sumatra disaster, helping hands have already been extended by a number of countries such as Malaysia, Singapore, Australia, Saudi Arabia, the UK, the US, Germany, South Korea, China, Japan, Russia, Qatar, the United Arab Emirates, Denmark, Switzerland, Thailand, Taiwan and Norway.

The Kingdom of Saudi Arabia has sent a maximus Aircargo plane carrying two units of trucks, one ambulance disaster response unit, a Search and Rescue (SAR) team, medicines, and four sniffer dogs that will be used to identify the presence of victims, both survivors and victims who died under collapsed buildings in West Sumatra.

Saudi Arabia has always been a friend of Indonesia and was now ready to help Indonesia in mitigating the disaster in West Sumatra, Saudi Arabian Ambassador to Indonesia Abdulrahman Moh. Amin Al-Khayad said in Jakarta.

From neighboring Australia, a plane carrying Australian rescue personnel and relief supplies touched down in West Sumatra's capital of Padang, AAP, Australian news agency, reported.

Supplies included medical kits, blankets and tents for the tens of thousands of Indonesians affected by Wednesday's devastating earthquake.

A 36-person urban search and rescue team and about 20 Australian Defense Force medics and engineers are expected to arrive in Padang on Saturday.

Australia has also provided $A 250,000 to Indonesian NGO Muhammadiyah to support its medical teams and humanitarian operations and AUS 100,000 to the Indonesian Red Cross for its emergency response.

Another neighboring country, Singapore, said it would provide $ 50,000 worth of emergency relief supplies, including temporary shelters, blankets and medicines. It is also sending a 42-member Civil Defense Force rescue contingent.

Malaysian doctors are also helping quake survivors in West Sumatra.

US President Barack Obama in Washington DC on Thursday expressed his sympathy over the Sumatra earthquake and his administration also sent immediate aid to help the victims.

"I know firsthand that the Indonesian people are strong and resilient and have the spirit to overcome this enormous challenge. And as they do, they need to know that America will be their friend and partner," Obama, who had spent his childhood for several years in Indonesia, said.

The United States announced Thursday it has released US$ 300,000 in immediate aid to the victims of Indonesia's massive earthquake and has set aside another US$ 3 million for later.

From Moscow, it was reported that the Russian Emergency Situations Ministry was sending rescue workers, doctors and psychologists to the earthquake-affected province.

"Under the instructions of the Russian president the Emergency Situations Ministry will help the residents of Sumatra, hit by a devastating earthquake. Two ministry's airplanes Il-76 are due to fly to the island on Thursday, October 1," a source in the information department of the Russian ministry told Itar-Tass on Thursday.

Russian President Dmitry Medvedev earlier sent a telegram of condolence to Indonesian President Susilo Bambang Yudhoyono.

China has allocated US$ 500,000 in aid to Indonesia, Chinese media cited on Friday the Foreign Ministry as saying. China's Red Cross has also provided US$ 50,000, Xinhua news agency said.

European Commission president Jose Manuel Barroso expressed his deep sympathy towards the victims through President Susilo Bambang Yudhoyono. The European Commission allocated three million euros to aid the victims.

An emergency response team from the European Commission's Humanitarian Aid has been deployed to Padang to evaluate the victims' necessities.

According to a press release from the UK Embassy in Jakarta, a team of UK search and rescue experts was sent to Indonesia by the Department for International Development (DFID).

The UK plane also carried specialist rescue equipment, some UK firefighters trained in emergency search and rescue techniques who will work with the Indonesian government to help in life saving and recovery efforts.

Earlier, Prime Minister Gordon Brown sent a message of condolences to President Yudhoyono following the disaster.

Canada's Minister of Foreign Affairs, Lawrence Cannon, also offered his country's condolences to the people of Indonesia.

Some 60 rescue personnel and 23 doctors from Japan arrived in Pariaman, which is the earthquake worst-hit district in West Sumatra, on Friday to help victims of the deadly.

Hamada, a spokesman of the doctor team from the Japanese International Cooperation Agency (JICA), said his team would focus on seriously injured victims.

"We choose to come to Pariaman because it is the worst-hit area and many victims suffer from broken bones," Hamada said.

Pariaman Deputy Mayor Mukhlir Rahman, when greeting the Japanese doctors, said many local residents suffered from broken bones and trauma due to the 7.6 earthquake.

The powerful temblor has devastated 10,581 houses, 88 public facilities, 77 places of worship, 76 school buildings, and 68 government offices in Pariaman alone.

The United Nations has also rushed teams to Indonesia to survey the damage in the wake of a massive earthquake and to prevent the outbreak of epidemic diseases.

A UN team – comprising members from the World Health Organization (WHO), the UN Children's Fund (UNICEF),and others – has arrived in the city of Padang, with a population of nearly 1 million, in Sumatra.

Secretary-General Ban Ki-moon offered his condolences to victims of the Indonesian quake and their families in his own statement, adding that he is closely following reports of the impact of the disaster.

A UN senior official has also called for global unity in responding to a series of deadly natural disasters that have struck Asia in recent days.

The international solitary towards the Sumatra earthquake's victims, by accident, came just few days after President Yudhoyono has stressed the importance for the world to foster global conscience, which he said imperative for maintaining harmony among civilizations.

In his lectures at Harvard University In Boston, Sept. 29, 2009, Yudhoyono described the need the for nurturing global conscience, by citing an example on what had happened after the Aceh tsunami 2004.

"It is not easy to describe this, but this is what I saw in Aceh during the tsunami tragedy. On 26 December 2004, giant tsunami waves crashed Aceh and Nias, and 200,000 people perished in half an hour. The whole nation was in grief, he said.

But in this tragedy, he said, one also found humanity. "The whole world wept, and offered helping hands. Americans, Australians, Singaporeans, Chinese, Mexicans, Indians, Turks and other international volunteers worked hand in hand to help the Acehnese. I realized then there exists a powerful global conscience," he said.

And the recent West Sumatra earthquake, as well as other disasters which happened almost at the same time in the Asia Pacific region, namely tsunami on Solomon Island and a deadly Typhoon in the Philippines, have again caused a global conscience to build up. (PNA/Bernama)

LGI/fom


Truly thankful ...

Thank you, Japan!

Seminggu ini negara Indonesia bener2 sibuk gara-gara gempa. Apa sih yg terjadi sebenernya dibawah sana yah bisa ribut gitu ??

Rabu kemarin gempa di Padang, terus besokannya Jambi, hari ini di Papua dan Gorontalo. Berita2 di tv teruuus memantau proses evakuasi. Gua denger banyak tangisan anak2 yg jadi korban, ibu2 yg kehilangan rumah dan keluarganya, masih banyak gambar2 mengerikan yg keliatan...

Sementara ironis memang, di ibukota Jakarta ini kita masih tenang2 aja, damai2 aja .. sedikit ngalamin mati lampu aja udah geraaah bener. Elit-elit politik sibuk masing2 ngurusin partai dan kepentingannya mau rapat ini itu, bahkan Pak SBY pun bilang kemarin ada pejabat diliput CNN terus ketawa-ketawa ditengah bencana gempa sigh ...

Barusan gua baca satu berita di Detik.com tentang Jepang bangun klinik kesehatan darurat di Pariaman salah satu kota yg deket dgn sumber gempa hari rabu kemarin. Wow ... dahsyat .. ini negara, bener2 salut dan peduli banget sama kita! Terimakasih Jepang!, Thank you, Arigatou, Japan!

Spertinya memang Jepang yg udah lebih berpengalaman yah menanggulangi bencana yg bahkan gua pernah denger mereka punya menteri khusus bencana. Bukan negara tetangga kita yg terdekat tapi malah yang bermil-mil jauhnya datang duluan.

Prinsip tabur tuai ... nggak hanya berlaku untuk pribadi aja, negara pun gua yakin begitu. Terlepas dari hal2 politik, tolong menolong demi kemanusiaan itu bukan dilihat manusia ukurannya tapi Tuhan sendiri yang bilang kalau kita menolong orang sama aja kita bikin utang sama Tuhan. Blessed Japan ...

Nggak hanya Jepang, tadi di tv pun gua lihat beberapa orang bule berpakaian kayak firemen sdh ikut menolong, astaga... negaraku ini punya hutang banyak sama negri lain.

Kalo ngomong banyaknya gempa, tiba2 inget lagu pak Niko yg Tanda tanda tlah nyata, hujan akhir tlah tiba. Allah sedang melawat umatnya. Ladang telah menguning, siap untuk dituai. Banyak jiwa menanti uluran tangan kita. Tuailah. Tuailah. Sekarang.

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My best drama movie this year

This year, as I remember, I watched Confessions of a Shopaholic and recently The Proposal. Both are good, likeable, funny and enjoyable for me.


Becky Bloomwood is my favorite ever since I read the novel. Her name sounds .. eerrm it's girlish and i just like it... feels like flourish *may be of the word "bloom"* ...
While Margaret Tate is .... well sounds normal, nothing special for me. a bit bossy u think?

The story .. Shopaholic is better for me as it combines several plot that bring problems such as Becky's financial, shopping desire, workplace, friendship, love, family while The Proposal is more centered to Margaret and Andrew with his family in addition.

Funny moments? I couldn't forget the way Luke and Becky danced, Becky's reasons to avoid Derek Smeath, Becky's speech of ruining shoppers rehab group, and many more. Shopaholic got more memorable moments in my mind than The Proposal.

Ending? well we can always guess every drama would end with a kiss of course hehe

After all, I pick Confessions of Shopaholic to be my best drama this year yay!!

Have a nice weekend all!